Record increase in divorces in Albania, sociologist explains the reasons

Gëzim Tushi in the A2CNN studio

 There is a record increase in divorces in Albania. According to published data, it turns out that 26.1% of marriages end in divorce. Albanian Sociologist Gëzim Tushe has explained on a local media (A2CNN) the reasons that lead Albanian couples to divorce. According to him, there are a number of factors that lead to divorce such as; immaturity, immigration, economy, education as well as other factors related to the culture of marriage and divorce.

"Divorce is a seismic shock to society. Modern times have liberalized the marital bond and the human right to enter and leave the marriage. Many marital ties are being made lightly. Many people get married without thinking long. Even women have come out of their biology, the concept of woman is rudimentary. It is a set of factors that influence divorce related to the culture of marriage and divorce. We do a lot of divorce without thinking long. We have terrible public pressure. There are several components that keep the marriage alive and distancing creates problems and brings crises. "Problems are created at a distance that have to do with the existence of marriage."

For Tushi, when the marriage turns into a home prison it is good to break up, but the increase in divorces emphasizes he creates problems for society. According to him, divorce is related to well-being.

"Marriage, when it comes back to house arrest, is good to break up. But the increase in divorces has consequences and consequences for the Albanian society that has big social problems. 26% of divorces are related to the level of well-being. Many socially orphaned children, these children are called trophies, and yet it is proven that it is better to have a dead father than a divorced one. "Families fall into poverty, the elderly suffer trauma."

He suggests to young people that when making the decision for marriage the people must think long, that marriage is not the paradise of sexuality, it has the inner dialectic. According to him, they should make more detailed diagnoses related to romantic and erotic elements.

"When deciding to get married, one should think long and hard that marriage is not just sexuality, marriage has an internal dialectic. A man who has a polygamous tendency does not resist staying in the marriage. Traditional and Victorian marriage was based on the economic factor that kept him connected even when he was shaken from within. Today's women are more employed and career, while today marriage is an erotic and emotional connection. They need to make more detailed diagnoses related to the romantic and erotic elements because these are very important and the educational level is very important. A code of agreement is needed to maintain the responsibilities related to marriage."