Your sexual fantasies can tell you a lot about yourself. Everybody’s fantasies are different. In order to understand who you truly are (and what turns you on) you should spend some time learning about your fantasies, and the catalysts for them. Most people’s fantasies have a source, i.e., an incident that caused a person to become attracted to a specific type of person or act.
If you are interested in learning more about yourself, then this is the post for you. This post will tell you everything you need to know about your sexual fantasies (and what they tell you about yourself).
Your Needs
Sexual fantasies can help you to figure out what your needs are, sexually that is. A lot of people’s needs are never fulfilled, not because they lack the ability to fulfill them, but because they never make an active effort to figure out what they are. Your sexual needs are your desires, what turns you on. By reading this article, one can see that milfs are a popular desire of many people. It’s not hard to see why, especially when you look at the list featured in that article. Next time you start fantasizing, stop and take a long hard think about what you’re fantasizing about. It might just turn out that in your fantasies, your subconscious is sending you messages, telling you what you need and what it’s lacking.
Exploration
Sexual exploration is something that everybody should do. It’s an effective way of learning about yourself and figuring out what turns you on. Unfortunately, many people never take the time to explore their sexualities, which is why we live in such a repressed society today. If you have never explored, then again, your fantasies can help you. Your sexual fantasies could tell you what it is that you are missing in your life (or what you are curious about). It is important to note that your dreams are an extension of your waking fantasies and can tell you a lot too.
Interests
What are you interested in sexually? If you aren’t sure, then just wait until you drift off and start fantasizing again. You are bound to live out your fantasies and interests in your fantasies. Most people do not make an effort to fantasize, it kind of just happens. If you ever find yourself drifting off into fantasies while you’re sitting down and relaxing, then let them take control. If you do this, then you will realize what you are interested in quite quickly. Your sexual interests will become immediately apparent because they will be the focus of your fantasies.
Entertainment
Fantasies can be a good way of passing the time. A lot of people’s time is spent using mobile devices and laptops nowadays. Very few people just sit back and think anymore. If you are somebody who does like to think, then you will know that fantasies can be a good way of keeping yourself entertained. Sexual fantasies, in particular, can be a good way of occupying one’s time. The thing that’s especially good about them is that they lead to arousal, which often leads to masturbation. Masturbation can be very good for your health. It’s a lot better to masturbate using one’s mind than porn because it is more natural.
Personality
Fantasies tell you a lot about your personality. Various studies have been conducted that suggest that people’s sexual fantasies can help them to learn about who they are as people. People never tend to take the time to try and learn about themselves anymore, sadly. This is mainly because people are massively addicted to smartphones and the internet. If you want to learn more about yourself then start tuning in to your fantasies. You could even write them down. Writing down your fantasies and then seriously thinking about them may help you to notice things you hadn’t noticed before.
Relationship
Finally, fantasies can tell you a lot about your relationship, too. Major scientific studies into sexual fantasies have found that people tend to fantasize primarily about their romantic partner, i.e., their spouse or boyfriend, or girlfriend. If you fantasize about somebody else, then it is a strong indication that you are not satisfied with your partner and want something more, from somebody else. If you are constantly fantasizing about another person then you might need to rethink your relationship. You may want to consider talking to your partner about this, because they may not be fulfilling you sexually.
Sexual fantasies tell you a lot about yourself. If you have a lot of them, then consider the points mentioned here, and think through your fantasies. Using this article you should be able to get to the bottom of your fantasies and establish what’s behind them.